Fatherhood is not just a title by default after you have a child, fatherhood is a learning. Without the right training, one fathers by default, not by intention. Just like one learns how to husband properly, one also has to learn how to father right.
Fatherhood is a learning and if it's a learning, it must have a curriculum. The following are the five vital curriculum of fatherhood:
1. Proper husbanding
The curriculum of fatherhood begins with proper husbanding.
2. Proper financial management unto family progress
3. A sense of sacrifice
4. Teaching your children how to make right choices
5. Teach your children the pursuit of God early
The image in front of you determines what you become. This means you are most likely going to pattern after the husbands and fathers around you because what you are going to give to in destiny is what you are looking at. The only way you are not going to repeat what you have seen and learnt by default is to replace that image on your inside. Unless you replace the image you are seeing, you will birth what you are seeing.